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A Capable, intelligent, and virtuous woman - who is he who can find her? She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies or pearls.
~ Proverbs 31:10
A Woman of Worth...

She comforts, encourages, and does him only good as long as there is life within her. - Proverbs 31:12



Hello Everyone!

I hope that you all had a wonderful June!

I am excited to share that this month, our sister site, Moms of Faith celebrates her 2 year anniversary! It has been an exciting road filled with wonderful surprises and God's grace. I look forward to celebrating MANY more anniversaries with ALL of the Faith and Family Ministries! 

In this issue we have some great ideas and recipes for making natural cleaners for your home, some delicious recipes to keep your hubby happy, and a few other treats as well.

We also have details about the different sections of the Wives of Faith website and columns. I hope that you are blessed by Wives of Faith this month and every month! God Bless you ALL! 

Have a FABULOUS July!

In His Love and Service,
Lara ;)



Wives of Faith in July

Our Theme: Frugal Wives


The heart of her husband trusts in her confidently and relies on and believes in her securely, so that he has no lack of honest gain or need of dishonest spoil.
- Proverbs 31:11


Monthly Challenge ~ Making better choices with our finances to honor the Lord and our husbands.

Weekly Devotional Topic ~ We are currently doing a series; "Help Meet by Design." We just completed the Jezebel Infection, and our newest lesson is Love Unconditionally

Joy Filled Marriages ~ We will discuss letting the Lord make us sparkle and shine.

Happy Home Life ~ I'm a Frugal Wife Pizza Biscuits Recipe and some frugal breakfast ideas.


Wives of Faith Monthly Columns in May:

Lara - "Becoming a Wife that Pleases the Lord" I will talk about being a Thrifty Wife!

Dianna - "A Wife's Journey" This month we will talk about how we are ambassadors for Christ AND our husbands.

Richele - "Wife 101" This month we will learn lessons from a vindictive wife as we study Herodias and how she failed and we can succeed.

Tracy - "The Encouraging Wife" Tracy will teach us how to be the encouragement that our husbands need.



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A HUSBAND of FAITH's Perspective

Each month, my husband, Robert will give his perspective on our monthly theme. Keep in mind that our theme goes hand in hand with our Wives of Faith Monthly Challenge. It is a real blessing for us as wives to gain the perspective of a Christian husband. I hope this blesses you as much as it does me as I interview him and gain a better understanding of my husband and men in general.

Note: Only a little snippet of the column will be featured in the newsletter. You will want to click on the link at the end of the snippet to read the actual column!

July's theme frugal wives. What is frugal wife to you?

Rob: A woman who lives within her means, who tries to save money whenever possible, and who knows how to stick to a budget.

As a man, do you feel a burden of financial pressure?

Rob: Yes, very much.

Me: Give me a description of that pressure.
 

CLICK HERE to read this entire column.


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Stubborn Wife = Angry Husband

By: Lara Velez 

I am married to a man whom I sometimes refer to as "My Diva Man." He is a person who likes things a certain way. He can be quite demanding at times. However, he is also a wonderful husband who works very hard so that I can be home with our two beautiful daughters every day.

Unfortunately, this stubborn wife sometimes forgets that and stomps her foot and refuses to give in to him and what he needs.

Let me share an example that happened recently...

We just started doing the South Beach Diet together. So, I need to make his lunch more often than I used to...now it's every day.

The other day, I could not find a container large enough to hold what I made AND small enough to fit in his lunch box without having to be at an angle. Well, I didn't think twice, I just put it on an angle.

The next day I did the same thing. This time, however, he looked in his lunch box and got annoyed. He told me that the dressing from the salad got all over the container lid last time. He asked me what he was supposed to do. I told him to scrape it off. BOOM! He got angry. He said I did not care about him and that he had to go work all night and so on. I got annoyed and basically told him he was a jerk. He went to work.

The next morning I got up to make him breakfast and some food for his second job. I made a tuna salad. What I did not do was drain the tuna as well as he would have liked it and again he noticed BEFORE he even left. He was angry and annoyed and again said that I did not care about him and that I just  threw his lunch together with no thought.

I got VERY angry and told him he was self centered and unthankful for the fact that I woke up and was nice enough to make him something.

We went back and forth for a few and he left for work.

Now, of course, my Dear and Wonderful Daddy in Heaven convicted me that day while my husband was working. He made me realize that I was the one who was wrong. I needed to be a help to my husband NOT a stubborn wife. I needed to love and CARE about what I was doing for him, not just throw something together and have a "It's better than nothing" attitude.

So, I apologized to my husband when he got home from work. And, he apologized for not expressing himself nicer.

My STUBBORNESS and "whatever" attitude was a hindrance to my husband. It made him angry and  upset. Thankfully I got past myself fairly quickly.

Unfortunately, many times, us wives remain stubborn for a LONG time and it causes our men to stumble .

The Word tells us VERY clearly to adapt ourselves to our husbands. Not always an easy task for this fallen woman! LOL!

Helpful and Cooperative Wife = Happy and Fulfilled Husband 

Copyright © Lara Velez

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Wives of Faith Health Watch

Each month will feature health related articles and tips to help you keep yourself, husband, and family as healthy as God intended!

Make Your Home Cleaners the Natural Way

Natural Cleaning Products

What happens to the household cleaners that you wash down your drain or throw away? You probably know the answer already. They contaminate our groundwater, our soil, and our food sources.

They affect our health and the health of our children too. In fact, the statistics are staggering. So staggering that scientists and physicians have come to the conclusion that the rise in asthma and allergies in our society is a direct result of household cleaners and the toxins in our environment.

Fortunately, the effects are reversible. In fact, they very easily can be reversed. We can renew our environment and improve our health with one simple commitment. The bonus is that the solution is also cost effective—you’ll save money.

The solution is homemade natural household cleaners.

Whether you want to make a significant personal contribution to the environment, or you want to ensure the health and safety of your family and pets, or you simply want to save money, natural household cleaners are the absolute best way to go.

Organizing the process

For each recipe, choose a storage solution that fits the need. If you’re making an abrasive, then use a container that has a sprinkle top (a top with holes in it) so that you can best utilize the cleaner. For a spray cleaner, you can purchase a spray bottle at your local grocer for about 50 cents. A label maker or a black Sharpie® marker works well to keep all cleaners identified and safe.

To make the entire process easier, we’re going to break the cleaners down into categories, provide a few trusted recipes, and offer suggestions for how to store and utilize each cleaner.

Air Fresheners

The biggest problem with commercial air fresheners, besides the fact that they are potentially toxic, is that they simply don’t work. Commercial air fresheners merely cover up the offending odor with a stronger odor, or they numb your olfactory senses so that you simply don’t smell anything.

Easy Air-freshener Recipes:

* Soak a cotton ball in real vanilla extract, not imitation, and place the cotton ball on a plate in the middle of your table or near the offending area like a kitty litter box. A fun spin on the vanilla-soaked cotton ball is to soak a cotton ball in your favorite essential oil like eucalyptus or lavender.

* Another warm and wonderful air freshener is to steep cinnamon and cloves on the stovetop for an hour or two. Your home will fill with the wonderful aroma and offending odors will dissipate.

* One of the most pungent areas of a household is the kitchen sink and garbage disposal. A quick and lasting remedy is to place a wedge of lemon or orange into the garbage disposal. Grind it up while you run cold water for 60-90 seconds. The citrus acid serves to both disinfect and deodorize your drain and surrounding plumbing.

* Baking soda, as the box says, works wonders as a refrigerator deodorizer and if you find that your water bottles, coffee mugs, or Thermos® bottles have stains, place ¼ tsp of baking soda and warm water in each and let them soak overnight. The smells will have vanished in the morning.

One last suggestion to keep your home smelling fresh and clean is to open your windows every day. A few minutes of ventilation will help clean the toxins out of your home and replace the stale air with freshness.

All-Purpose Cleaners

All-purpose cleaners are the ideal solution. They clean bathroom surfaces, kitchen surfaces, laundry- room surfaces and anything else that you can think of. In addition to cleaning and disinfecting, they also deodorize thanks in large part to the baking soda ingredient in most household cleaners. When stored properly they can last for several weeks.

Basic cleaner

1/8 cup baking soda
1/2 cup ammonia
1/4 cup white vinegar
1/2 gallon warm water
Mix ingredients and store in tightly capped container. A large empty milk jug works well for storage.

Abrasive variation

½ cup vinegar and ½ cup kosher salt
Mix together in a small bowl or storage container

Bathroom or kitchen Surface Cleaner

Dissolve 4 tablespoons baking soda in 1 quart warm water

Furniture Polish

2 parts vegetable oil and 1 part lemon juice
Apply polish with a soft cloth and buff to a shine
Label and store in a Mason jar

Laundry Supplies

- Fabric softener and deodorizer
1/4 to 1/2 cup baking soda per wash load

- Starch
Mix together 1 tablespoon cornstarch in 1 pint cold water
Dissolve cornstarch
Place in a spray bottle
Shake before using

Stain Removers

* Chocolate
Soak stain with club soda before washing

* Cola
Apply undiluted vinegar directly to the stain within 24 hours and wash as usual

* Perspiration stains
Sponge stains with a solution of 1 cup warm water, 1 tbsp of white vinegar or lemon juice

* Grease on suede
Dab grease stain with a white cloth dipped in vinegar
Air dry
Restore suede texture with a suede brush

Metal Cleaners and Polishes

- Aluminum
Fill cookware with hot water and add 2 tablespoons cream of tartar to 1 quart of water
Bring solution to a boil
Simmer 10 minutes
Wash as usual and dry

- Brass
Mix a paste of lemon juice and salt in a glass or ceramic bowl
Rub with a soft cloth
Rinse and dry

- Bronze, pewter, and copper
Dissolve 1 teaspoon of salt in 1 cup of white vinegar
Add enough flour to make a paste
Apply paste to bronze and let sit for 30-45 minutes
Rinse with warm water and dry/buff with clean towel

- Silver
Mix together a paste of ¼ cup water and enough baking soda to make a paste
Wearing cotton gloves apply paste using a soft cloth
To remove tarnish from silverware, sprinkle baking soda on a damp
cloth and rub it on the silverware until tarnish is gone
Rinse and then dry

- Stainless steel
Dampen a cloth with undiluted white or cider vinegar
Polish silverware with damp cloth
Wipe clean

- Oven cleaners
Dampen a steel wool pad with water
Sprinkle baking soda onto pad or oven bottom
Rub gently
Wipe off scum with dry paper towels or a sponge
Rinse well

Carpet Cleaners

Cleaner and deodorizer
Sprinkle baking soda liberally over dry carpet
Wait at least 30-45 minutes (you can leave overnight)
Vacuum

Carpet Stains

- Blood stains
Sponge stain immediately with cold water or club soda and dry with a towel
Repeat until stain has disappeared

- Ink stains
Place a teaspoon of cream of tartar on the ink stain
Blend with a few drops of ice water
Rub the cream of tartar and water into the stain (do not saturate)
Brush with a clean toothbrush and sponge immediately with warm water
Repeat if necessary

Bathroom Cleaners

Toilet bowl
Sprinkle ¼ cup of baking soda into your toilet bowl
Pour in approximately ¼ cup of white or cider vinegar
Scour with a toilet brush

Bathtub
Use baking soda as a scouring powder
Using a damp sponge and a little elbow grease, rub powder into tile and tub surfaces
Rinse thoroughly

Glass and window cleaner
1/2 cup white vinegar
1 gallon warm water
Mix in a large bucket, or for ease of use you can place into a spray bottle
Use paper towels or clean lint-free towel to clean
Avoid newspaper as most have a water-based ink now and ink will smear

Floor Cleaners

- Hardwood floor cleaner/deodorizer
Mix a 1:1 ratio of oil and vinegar into a solution
Apply a thin coat with a mop or small towel (depending on the size of your floor)
Rub in well
Repeat once a week

- To remove grease spots
Pour kosher salt on the grease spot to absorb grease and prevent staining

- To eliminate hardwood floor scratches
Mix equal parts of lemon juice and vegetable oil
Rub into scratches with a soft cloth
Repeat until scratches disappear

Pet Stains

New carpet stains

New carpet stains are fresh, wet stains. It is important to absorb as much of the urine as possible before treating the stain. Place newspaper or paper towels on the stain and press or stand on the paper to absorb as much moisture as possible. If it is an option, place newspaper under the stain as well since the urine may have soaked through to any carpet padding.

Once the paper is soaked, change it out and start again. Repeat process until the stain is barely damp. Once the stain is as dry as possible, rinse it with cool clean water. Repeat the paper process again until stain is almost dry.
You can be done at this point, but if you would like to ensure that all scent is gone, I recommend treating the stain with our odor remover and cleaner, found on page 30, or a commercial enzyme cleaner. Enzyme cleaners contain natural organisms that actually eat away the odor-causing bacteria in the stain, removing stains and odors from your carpet and the padding below.

Old carpet stains

Old carpet stains are stains that have already set. They can be a problem to clean, but your persistence will pay off. Your cat or dog’s sense of smell is so developed that they can smell the difference between a gallon of water with a teaspoon of salt in it and plain water. Imagine how strong urine smells to them.
If you have previously used cleaners or chemicals on the area, then you will need to remove them for the enzymatic cleaners to work properly. The best method to remove the cleaners is to use an industrial carpet-cleaning machine that is easily rented at your local hardware or grocery store. Use the machine with clean water only. No detergents as they'll interfere with the enzymatic cleaner's ability to target the stain directly.

You may want to use a cleaning machine as your first step even if you haven't previously used chemicals on the area. They do the best job of extracting dirt and will leave less work for the enzymatic cleaners.

Machine-washable Items: upholstery, bedding and clothes

For machine-washable items that have been stained by a pet, toss a one-pound box of baking soda into the wash along with your detergent. Air drying the items is recommended. If you can still see or smell the urine after washing, wash the items again using an enzymatic cleaner and follow the directions on the label.

Upholstery

If it is not an option for you to remove the cover of your couch cushions and launder them, then dab the stain with a cloth or paper towel. Dampen stain with cold water or club soda and blot again. Mix 1 tablespoon of vinegar and 2 cups of warm water and apply to stain. Repeat process until stain has been removed. If odor persists, apply an enzymatic odor remover to ensure that odor has been eliminated. Make sure to test for color fastness and follow the directions on the label.

Microfiber upholstery
Blot the urine with cold water or club soda and a towel. White is recommended so that you can see the transference of the yellow stain. Cover the stain with baking soda, let it sit for an hour or until dry and then vacuum.

Hardwood floors
Your pet’s urine can harm your hardwood floor and cause it to rot; however, there are a few options.

If you catch the soil while it is still fresh, blot the area immediately with paper towels. Wash the area thoroughly with undiluted white vinegar and rinse completely with warm water. Blot dry immediately with paper towels. Apply an enzymatic odor remover following the manufacturer's directions.

If the stain remains, you can buff the stain with a fine-grained steel wool and floor wax. Buff in the direction of the grain until the stain begins to blend with the finish and the wood is restored. If the stain persists, you can make a paste of pumice powder and vegetable oil and rub into the spot with a soft absorbent cloth. Rub in the direction of the grain until the stain is removed.

If the stain is old, you may try to sand out the stain if it doesn't go too deep. After sanding, apply a polyurethane sealer. Several coats may be needed to seal in the odor.

Rosemary spot remover

Use this to remove and sanitize urine spots on rugs or fabrics. The scent may deter your cat or dog from using the same area again.

1 bar of grated Castile soap
1 oz of rosemary oil
1 oz of rubbing alcohol

1. Melt the soap in the double boiler.
2. Add rosemary oil and alcohol and blend well.
3. Pour the mixture into a large bowl and let it set.
4. Use as you would any soap or cleaner.

As you can see from the abundance of natural cleaning recipes, it is an easy and effective way to both deodorize and clean your home while keeping your family and the planet safe from harm. This small contribution will make a huge difference. You’ll feel great about your contribution to the environment and your family will receive noticeable health benefits and you will have saved money. At the same time, your home will be clean and smell fresh!

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Taking Care of Your Man's Tummy

Each month will feature 2-3 recipes to show your hubby love in the kitchen. Also, be sure and check the website for even more scrumptious recipes to try on your man!


Easy Mexican Kiss Me Honey Chicken Wraps

2 cups cooked skinless boneless chicken breast, shredded
1/2 cup light sour cream
1/2 cup your fav. chunky salsa
2 tablespoons light mayo
1 cup shredded Mexican cheese blend
1 cup shredded lettuce
4 lowfat/lowcarb f10 inches lour tortillas

Combine salsa, mayo, and the sour cream. Then mix in the cheese and chicken. Evenly scoop onto the tortillas and sprinkle with lettuce. Fold over the sides and serve.

Tootie Fruitie Yogurt Smoothie

2 biscotti (in any flavor)
1 cup vanilla yogurt
1/2 cup frozen fruit, semi-thawed
4 teaspoons honey
4 tablespoons sliced almonds, toasted
Ice, if needed

Blend the fruit with the yogurt in your blender or smoothie maker. Add ice as needed. Break biscotti into small pieces into bowls. Place the fruit mixture on top of the biscotti. Add honey and almonds.

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